What should I expect from the premarital counseling experience?

You should expect to be challenged, strengthened, educated, and better prepared for your upcoming marriage. You will probably experience some laughs, some tears, and some pleasant surprises! You should leave your premarital counseling with some problem areas identified, some new marital skills learned, and most importantly - a more realistic expectation of what marriage will be like!

What is the cost of the premarital counseling program?

The cost for members of Southwest (those who have attended CLASS 101 and been baptized) is $100. The cost to non-members is $200. This cost covers the workbooks and other counseling materials.

Who does the premarital counseling?

Your premarital counseling will be done with a married couple who has received special premarital training. Although these counselors are specifically training in the area of premarital counseling, they are not professional, licensed counselors. They have chosen to serve at Southwest in this area. One of the goals of the premarital counseling ministry is to provide all premarital couples with the opportunity to be connected with a mentoring couple in a relationship that extends beyond the six weeks of the program.

What do we talk about in the sessions?

You will discuss many subjects throughout your time together. These subjects include marital roles and responsibilities; skills for communicating and resolving conflicts; realistic management of finances; your sexual relationship; your family of origin; and more. Your relationship strengths will be discussed, as well as areas that need growth. Although the program is designed to cover certain topics, your counselors will design your time together to fit your individual needs. Details of the six sessions are discussed during your premarital interview. Homework assignments are given prior to each session to enhance your understanding (and promote discussion) of the material.

Are there any additional activities involved in premarital counseling?

Individual financial counseling is available upon request. It is strongly recommended that those involved in remarriages discuss counseling options prior to entering into a new marriage. Please fill out our counseling referral form to schedule an appointment.

May God richly bless you individually, and as a couple, as you embark on this exciting journey together!

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